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Do What Works for You

Bar Pass

This is a post I have been wanting to write since I took the bar exam. However, the information contained in it would either be right or wrong depending on whether or not I passed. Since I did pass my state’s bar exam I feel like I can finally write this.

Going into bar prep a considerable amount of time Googling things like “how do I pass the bar exam?” and “tips and tricks to pass the bar.” I looked through various websites, talked to past bar sitters, and read numerous threads of chitchat to see which way was the best way to study for the bar. The answer is quite simple, it all depends on the person.

For any student studying for the bar exam my school offered us a “bar pass pod” which was basically a floor of empty offices to use as needed for studying. Every day when I walked in there I saw so many variations of people’s study habits. From the bar results and discussions I have had with fellow bar sitters I can give some insight into what may and may not work during your bar study.

WHAT WORKS (suggestions from three recent bar passers)

√ PACE YOURSELF

            The analogy is true- it’s a marathon, not a sprint. You will not be able to learn everything you need to know the last two weeks before the bar. Allow yourself enough time to review the information, process the information, and absorb the information. This occurs in various steps over quite a few weeks. So don’t try to cram all of your studying into the first couple weeks or the last couple weeks of bar prep. Spread it out over your allotted time and pace yourself in your studying.

√ FOLLOW THE PROGRAM

            Whether you sign up for a commercial bar prep program like BarBri or Kaplan or you structure your own study program, follow the program. I personally took BarBri and it felt like there were not enough hours in the day to get done what they threw at me. But I just trusted the process. There was a daily task list and a weekly task list. I did what I could in a day and what was left, I made sure to add it to my “weekly to do list.” Sundays were my lightest study days so whatever I couldn’t tackle during the week ended up on Sunday’s list. If Sunday evening came around and there were a few items left, I marked them for later review and told myself I would go back to them on a future date. There were some that I was able to complete and others that I was not. However, I did read and review the answers to the assignments I was not able to fully complete. Missing those couple of assignments did not turn out to be detrimental.

√ TRUST WHAT YOU KNOW

            If you rocked out in Torts during law school don’t spend too much of your study time focused on that area. Although we were told you don’t need your law school outlines to study from for the bar, my old outlines actually helped to refresh my memory on some topics. I spent minimal time on the topics I knew well (Constitutional Law, Civil Procedure, and Property) and focused more on the ones that were new to me (Commercial Paper and Trusts). I knew that I had a good outline in my memory of the topics I had already been tested on. I trusted that I knew what I needed to know from my previous exposure to the topic, the bar prep videos, and the various questions I was exposed to and moved on.

√ TAKE BREAKS

            Three of us took breaks religiously throughout the day. The one thing we all agreed on is to get away! Step away from your books and just stretch, get some fresh air, grab some ice water or a hot coffee and just leave your studying alone for 15 minutes. You will come back refreshed and more focused and able to absorb the information being thrown at you at 100 miles per hour. And when you feel your mid-afternoon exhaustion attacking, do it again! However, there comes a point where you need to know when enough is enough. See “lack of sleep” below.

√ USING SOMEONE ELSE’S OUTLINES*

            There is a split of opinion on this so it appears in both sections of What Works and What Does Not Work.

            I, personally, created my own outlines. I did this in three stages: a large comprehensive outline, condensed to a more minimal outline, and a final attack sheet with “need to knows” on it. Plus, for every attack sheet I had a medium sized post-it note with “things to remember.” These were things I saw repeated on the BarBri answers that seemed to gain more points.

            A friend of mine used only commercial outlines. Westlaw provided some and then he also purchased Lean Sheets. This worked for him. However, he did not create outlines during law school either, that is just not how he learned. However, he did say that he read the large BarBri outline book from front to back whereas I only used that large book to fill in gaps in my knowledge.

            Another friend of mine did a combination of both. She made her own outline and then used Lean Sheets in the final two weeks to study from. Because the Lean Sheets were pretty lean (he, he, he) in some topics, she found herself adding some notes here and there.

            So, whatever works best for you should be the route you take. But remember this is a learning process and I feel that part of the process is putting pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard) to help your memory retain some of the information.

 

WHAT DOES NOT WORK (by two recent bar sitters who failed to achieve passing scores)

√ LACK OF SLEEP

            Both admitted to burning the midnight oil. One was there every morning, Monday through Sunday, at 5 a.m.! This same person left every night at midnight. He admits that he was exhausted which probably led to poor study habits. Although he felt he was putting in the work, looking back he admits that he had caught himself going back and re-reading the same section a few times because his mind was so exhausted it was not keeping up with him.

He said he totally agrees with taking breaks, but know when to call it a night and go home to relax with some mindless TV and a good night sleep.

√ BAD EATING HABITS

            WE ALL DID THIS! It’s easy enough to get up from your desk, walk a few steps, and pick up some sugary snack provided to us on the snack table in our bar pass pod. Although there was fruit and granola, sometimes the Pop-Tart or bag of Skittles was just way easier.

In the first month of bar prep I studied at home. I got to take a lunch break and eat something from my own fridge and then take a long dinner break and cook my family dinner. I realized during that time period I was much more energetic and productive.

However, during the second half of my bar prep when I studied at school and hit the snack table hard, I noticed I was exhausted more easily and not nearly as productive.

Try to keep healthy and brain-boosting snacks on hand so you are tempted to visit the vending machine too often.

√ UNPROVEN STUDY HABITS

            Now is not the time to “try something new.” Use the tried and true study habits that worked for you in law school.

One woman stated she never outlined during law school and she did fine. However, during bar prep everyone she saw said that she should do outlines. So, in her quest to pass the bar she attempted to make outlines. She said this was to her detriment. She spent more time trying to figure out what a good outline was and how she was even supposed to study from one. She thinks the additional time and effort she put into creating outlines deterred her away from her actual studying which she feels contributed to her not passing.

√ USING SOMEONE ELSE’S OUTLINES*

            As mentioned above, this could go either way! A recent non-passer said they purchased the Lean Sheets and relied on these as a study aid. They did not create their own outlines and feels as though he should not have relied so heavily on these alone. If you choose to use a commercial outline, you will need to supplement it. These come to you bare boned. You need to fluff if up with things that are missing or things your don’t know already that the commercial outlines may assume you already know.

I could ramble on and on about stories from the front line of bar prep. However, I will leave you with these few tips above and let you get back to your studying.

Good luck, future bar passer!

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And There It Was…

… my name!

Thursday while at work I was a big ball of stress. The impending release of the bar pass names was obviously weighing on me. Getting no work done, my boss suggested I take a half day and enjoy some time with my family and relax on Friday while I waited for the bar results to be posted.

I went home, napped, made dinner, played with Little Bit and tried (unsuccessfully) to keep the thought of the results being posted out of my head. Friday was not much better. I did menial things around the house and played and napped some more. From 3:00-4:00 the hour just stalled. It was as if time stood still. LONGEST. HOUR. OF. MY. LIFE.

But then there we were. Refreshing the page where the results were to be posted. Little Bit sitting on the couch in the office with Alex and Aldo trying to weasel their way up to the couch as well. Mr. Mister was in control of the mouse-clicking, refreshing  every second and I stood behind him, knees shaking, biting my nails, waiting for the link to appear. Mr. Mister was refreshing the screen so quickly he missed it but I saw the blue hyperlink appear. I screamed “there is it! Stop! Stop! Stop! Click here.” And I pointed out to him what he had overlooked.

The attachment opened and my heart quickened. My knees started to get a little weak and suddenly the sound of Little Bit’s animal noise toys was muted from my ears and all I heard was my own pounding heartbeat. And there it was, my name.

I passed the state bar exam! I was ecstatic! Elated! Happy! I jumped up and down and hugged my husband and cried knowing that the stress of law school was behind me and I only had the joy of starting a new career in front of me.

For those starting bar prep for the July bar, put in the study time. It doesn’t have to be excessive, but it should be quality. I hope you get the same excitement I did when you see your name on a pass list.

Pass

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Here Goes Nothing

The bar exam has arrived!
Perseverance

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Homestretch

So, here I am. I am in my LAST WEEK of bar prep. I swore I thought I had to be medicated last week. I almost called my doctor to make an appointment. NO JOKE! Anxiety is getting to me. Luckily, Mr. Mister forced me to take a half-day Sunday and made me call my girlfriends for a dinner date. It was just what the “doctor” ordered, a half a day away from everything bar related (although, we did have appetizers at a bar while waiting for our table). I am starting this last week with a feeling of rejuvenation.

Every day I walk into our “bar pass pod” (a study area dedicated to students in our school studying to take the bar) there are different sticky notes stuck to each door. I am not sure who writes them but I LOVE them! Today mine was especially motivational: If it doesn’t challenge you, it doesn’t change you.

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A Little Perspective

I’m beat! I am tired. I have been told by numerous people that I look “exhausted” (read: like shit). That’s what bar prep will do to you. Now that I am in the final two week stretch, my days are longer and my eyes have bigger bags under them. But, this morning I got a little perspective from my husband. Here was our exchange:

 

Mr. Mister: I think you are stealing all of my energy because I have none left.

Me: Uh, well I need it, so…thanks. I gotta run, have a fun day today.

Mr. Mister:  You too!

Me: Fun?! There is nothing fun about what I am doing in that little office at school.

Mr. Mister: Are you kidding me?! It is fun for you. You live for this stuff! You live to learn and be a student and this will be the last time you will ever have this opportunity under true “school” settings. Make the most of it!

 

Boom! Prepare to be dominated Bar Exam!

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A Day in the Life of a Mom Studying for a Bar Exam

In order to fully dedicate my time to studying for the bar, I took of leave of absence from my job. My friends as family are so use to me going non-stop and being super busy all of the time, the question I am now getting ask is “what do you do with all of your extra free time now?” Uh????????? What?! As a mom to a one-year old who is studying to take a bar exam I DO NOT have any extra free time. In order to show how I spend my free time, here is my current weekday daily schedule.

6:30 a.m.

Wake up, shower and get minimally ready for the day.

7:00 a.m.

Little Bit yells “mom” from the her room signaling me she is ready to rock n’ roll for the morning.

7:05 a.m.

 Diaper change and clothes change.

7:15 a.m.

Start the coffee and make Little Bit her breakfast. She is on a Ms. Independent streak right now so I have to make her food in bite size pieces she can handle on her own. The other morning half a waffle wound up in her mouth all at once and it was quite a battle trying to extract it from the death grip that a one year old’s jaw possesses.

7:30 a.m.

Eat my own breakfast and work some multiple choice questions on my Barbri app.

8:00 a.m.

Mr. Mister wakes up and joins us.

8:05 a.m.

I pack a lunch. One downfall of not working is the lack of a second income. All of my favorite downtown lunch places are off limits for the foreseeable future.

8:15 a.m.

I pack up the various books I will need for my lectures and assignments that day.

8:20 a.m.

I head out the door and off to school.

NOTE: I head to school for the day, in lieu of studying from home, because Little Bit is either being watched by Mr. Mister or our in-home caretaker so I feel like it would be too distracting there. On the other hand, I feel like I am wasting an hour of valuable study time on my commute each day to school. Next week I am going to try to study a few days from home and see how productive I can be and if it makes a difference.

8:50 a.m.

Arrive at school, find a corner study room, and set up shop.

9:00 a.m.

Start the video lecture, take notes, and draft a rough outline for the assigned daily topic.

11:00 a.m.

Take a quick walk around in front of the school to get some fresh air and rejuvenate myself.

11:10 a.m.

Eat lunch WHILE I finish the video lecture.

12:30 p.m.

Complete the video lecture and start organizing all of my notes into a more   comprehensive outline.

 1:30 p.m.

Essay time- I try to do one MEE essay a day. Our school offers “workshops” where you can write out an assigned essay and submit it to your bar coach for feedback. I take FULL ADVANTAGE of this opportunity. Not everyone does. The hour after the workshops they offer professor insight into the essays and points to score on the essay. I went to these all the first week but found that they were not very helpful since a full example answer was provided to us. I quit going and just do a thorough review of the answer myself and give myself an honest grade of how I feel I did. I then compare this to the grade my bar coach gives me to see if I have realistic views of my ability to write. So far, I am not too far off base.

2:30 p.m.

MBE time- Barbri normally gives us sets of multiple choice questions to work through, about 2 sets a day. I work through those and then very methodically go through each right and wrong answer for each question.If there are not any MBE’s assigned for the day, Barbri normally gives us topic diagnostics on Blackletter law. I do these just the same as I do the MBE sets.

 3:30 p.m.-4:00 p.m.

Finish up any last minute work and pack up to head home.

 4:30 p.m.

Walk through the door greeted by two barking dogs, a smiling baby, and a desperately exhausted looking husband. I spend some time with each of them.

 5:15 p.m.

Start dinner. While that is cooking I unload the dishwasher and start a load of laundry.

 6:00 p.m.

Eat dinner with the family. Listen to Little Bit tell me she wants “mo’, mo’ mo’” of whatever it is that she is eating. The girl can eat!

 6:30 p.m.

Husband cleans up while Little Bit and I play. I am attempting to teach her the alphabet song. My husband says a year old is a little young, but I am determined! It’s her favorite song. I have been singing it to her in English and Spanish since before she was even born. She’s gotta know at least a few letters by now.

7:00 p.m.

Little Bit’s bedtime routine starts: bath, PJs, a book (right now Moo, Ba, La, La, La is on heavy rotation along with Good Night Moon). We sing a few songs, say goodnight to all her stuffed animals, and she is down for the night.

 7:30 p.m.

Spend a little time with Mr. Mister. Maybe watch an episode of a mindless show.

 8:00 p.m.

Back to the grind. Depending on your knowledge of certain subjects and it’s subtopics, as shown through the results of the online MBE’s and diagnostic tests I discussed above, Barbri assigns you “homework” in addition to all of the regular study assignments they give you. I work on this “homework” every evening.

 11:30 p.m.

Start packing it up for the night. I clean up my desk and make sure I have everything cleaned up to be quickly thrown in my bag the following morning to start all over again.

 11:45 p.m.

Hit the sack. Finally!

 11:55 p.m.

Damn, I forgot to switch the laundry!

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Tuesday’s Tangent

TANGENT TUESDAY

Things that distract me while studying at school: 

The smell of old Chipotle in the study rooms.

People peeking into my study room every five minutes looking for an empty one.

When one tube light bulb is out.

Overflowing recycle bins.

The sound of women’s clicking high-heels down the hallway.

Half erased dry erase boards.

Noisy doors.

The missing stapler from the copy room.

I think I may try to start studying from home. Although Little Bit may be a bigger distraction than all of these combined!

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Bar Prep: Denial and Acceptance

Weights

Bar Prep has been a WHOLE NEW WORLD for me! I use to take pride in the fact that I was a good student. I was organized, structured, had clear thoughts and logical reasoning. My outlines (in my opinion) were pristine. As a matter of fact, I let a girlfriend borrow my Evidence outline because she couldn’t get a grasp on the subject. She said it “was a thing of beauty” and helped her grasp concepts that she would have not otherwise understood. If I was so good at earning the grade, why am I lacking at being a good preparer for the bar?!

People mentioned it to me before and I didn’t give their comments too much weight, but studying for the bar is a whole new beast. Although I think law school prepared me, generally, to be able to compartmentalize various sub-topics within a topic, it in no way prepared me for the massive volume of information that was going to be spit out to me all at once. Nor did it help me compartmentalize so many topics at once. At most, my brain has four areas for four different topics, five if two topics share a room.

The first week of bar prep I was in denial. Denying that the bar exam was approaching. Denying that this one test could make or break my immediate future (atleast until July). Denying that the good grades I got in law school may have been a farce to the real me who maybe isn’t cut out for this after all.

The second week got a little better. I got into the groove of studying. I knew what to expect when I was presented essays or knew how long it would take me to review the answers to 18 question-MBE sets (one and a half hours, in case you are interested). Listening to the constant complaining of other students about the amount of work we get, about the lack of school involvement in our success, about the lack of structure in the program really started to bring me down. And it was wearing on me mentally.  So, now I have accepted my fate.

I understand the bar is coming in February whether I am ready for it or now. If I don’t want all of these hours spent studying to be for nothing, I better get rid of my negative attitude and get ready to address this exam head on.

So, this week I have accepted the challenge to go forth and nail this bar exam. And by “nail” I mean achieving a passing score. If I get one point higher than that, maybe I studied too hard 🙂

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And so it begins….

Bar prep is now two weeks in and I am feeling good about it. Not “good” in the sense that I know every rule or that I have a handle on every topic. I am FAR from that. But I feel good in the sense that I am managing the daily schedule they have provided to me, I have not missed any assignments, and the MPTs and MEEs that I have answered so far have been in the ballpark.

So, here’s to hoping these next 8 weeks continue to go as smoothly as these last two!

PS: Some of these lectures are just horrifyingly dull!

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(Kinda) Unemployed

Lazy

Yesterday was the beginning of my first day without working since I was 16 years old! Of course I took off three months for maternity leave, but that was in the normal course of business. Now, I am taking off two and a half months to study full time for the bar. This week is my buffer week. I had one final yesterday and bar prep starts next Monday. So… here I am on a Tuesday morning, with nothing to do, bored already. I must say that yesterday was pretty fabulous. Mr. Mister woke up with Little Bit, fed her breakfast, cleaned all the dishes, and prepped Little Bit’s lunch for the babysitter while I slept in until 8:45 for the first time in over a year. IT. WAS. GLORIOUS. But of course, I can’t make that a habit.

I was already given a time table of pre-bar prep stuff that I need to get done before next Monday. Yesterday’s and today’s lists are completed and I am contemplating starting on tomorrow’s list. But I really want to call into work and see how everything is going. I also want to take a nap while Little Bit is napping. However, I should probably get out of my pi’s and do something productive. Ah, the struggle is real right now. I guess I better enjoy these lazy days before my life gets crazy-hectic again.

Maybe I should catch up on my ‘sodes of How To Get Away With Murder! Does anyone else think this is the most cheesy, yet fabulous, show?

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